I recently saw this quote by Bruce Lee: “I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.” My initial thought when I saw the quote was that I basically agree. We all know that we can’t please everyone all the time. It’s ...…
I don’t know about you, but I hate it when I hear people tell their stories when it starts with “we’re just friends.” This seems like a road to disaster for me. I can’t imagine how anyone thinks that this sounds even remotely reasonable to a spouse, yet many of us buy in and rationalize ...…
So you think your wife or husband could be cheating on you. Wow. What do your insides feel like? Mush? A big ball of rubber bands? An empty bucket? How long are you willing to let these suspicions go on before you confirm the truth? I was a big chicken when I suspected my husband ...…
So you think your spouse is having an affair. You’ve been able to check off several of the indicators on the checklist. Maybe you just have that feeling that something isn’t right. If you don’t have a checklist, sign up in the box to the right to get our free checklist. No matter what makes ...…
These infidelity statistics are alarming. If you’re married, you need to pay attention to this. Keep in mind that these statistics about adultery are based on what people would admit to. Since infidelity is a secretive sport to begin with, there’s a fairly good chance that these numbers are low. At least that’s my opinion ...…
One of the things I believe 100% is that it’s critical to not waste time and energy on the other person. Contacting the other person is always a bad idea. The results of that contact typically range from distasteful to disastrous. I have yet to hear a story where someone says they got what they ...…
Before I knew that my husband was involved in an affair, I started noticing some odd things about his behavior. This one thing, though, really had me stumped. At least for a while. I noticed that most every night he would spend a good twenty minutes or more in the bathroom. When I thought back, ...…
One of the ways that cheating spouses hurt their family is by being unavailable or uninvolved in important events or holidays. The reasons they don’t participate can vary, but some of the most common are: They feel guilty so they withdraw They prefer to be with the other person so they withdraw They have already ...…